你得到的最好的建议是什么？_风闻

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Ranjani 

I have met a handful of people. I tried gaining knowledge from them and here are some of the best ones.

* Mom’s advice:

* Always put yourself into the shoes of others. You’ll never know the bitter things happy faces hide behind themselves.

* Put your 100% into everything you do. You only get what you DESERVE , Not what you DESIRE.

* An educated mind is far more worthy than an uneducated one.

* Never blame others for what is happening in your life.

* Only a Goldsmith knows the value of Gold. If you enquire about it to a Farmer, the gold loses its value.

* Perseverance pays off in Future.

Dad’s Advice:

* Do a thing only if you can do it and not just because it has been told to you to complete that task.

* Be systematic and perfect.

【回答】

我见过一些人。我试着从他们那里得到知识，以下是一些最好的建议。

妈妈的建议：

* 永远设身处地为别人着想，你永远不会知道快乐的笑脸背后藏着多少苦涩。

* 把你的全部精力投入到你做的每一件事上，你得到的只是你应得的，而不是你渴望的。

* 受过教育的头脑远比没受过教育的头脑有价值。

* 永远不要因为生活中发生的事情而责怪别人。

* 只有金匠才知道金子的价值。如果你向农民询问黄金的价值，黄金就会失去价值。

* 坚持不懈会有回报。

爸爸的建议：

* 做一件你能做的事，而不仅仅是因为别人告诉你要完成那件事。

* 要系统化及完善。

* Try to learn good habits from the people you meet.

* Remember, money doesn’t grows in trees.

* Don’t change yourself for others.

* Time is like your favorite Butterscotch caramel Ice cream. There is no use in eating it after it has melted.

Some random advice from peers, Elders and Experience…

* Do good and receive good.

* Never hurt anyone intentionally.

* Always give a helping hand but make sure it doesn’t hurt you.

* Be compassionate with others.

* Never criticize publicly. 

* Enjoy life. Never overthink because emotional pain lasts merely for less than 30 minutes and anything more than that is a result of overthinking.

* Write poems to battle stress and sadness.

* Learn to say no.

* Never waste your time by trying to make haters understand you.

* Books are your best friends who always welcome you lovingly whenever you approach them.

* 试着从你遇到的人那里学习好的习惯。

* 记住，钱不是长在树上的。

* 不要为别人改变自己。

* 时间就像你最爱的奶油糖果焦糖冰淇淋。融化后再吃是没有用的。

一些来自同龄人、长辈和经验的建议。

* 行善得善。

* 不要故意伤害他人。

* 伸出援助之手，但要确保不会伤害到你。

* 同情他人。

* 永远不要公开批评。

* 享受生活。千万不要想太多，因为情绪上的痛苦只会持续不到30分钟，任何超过这个时间的事情都是想太多的结果。

* 写诗来战胜压力和悲伤。

* 学会拒绝。

* 永远不要浪费时间试图让仇恨你的人理解你。

* 书籍是你最好的朋友，无论你何时走进它们，他们总是热情地欢迎你。